The Easygoing Bride Gets The Better Wedding Photographs

Many couples have spent upwards of twelve months arranging the wedding. That’s a long time. It feels like you’re constantly talking about the upcoming nuptials and working out the details. Significant time and money is invested. So, it makes sense that we have desires and expectations for your special day. The thing is, couples who revel in their weddings are the people that are able to let go of that attachment to a point – to roll with whatever may transpire. Those who manage this potentially challenging task of rolling with it and who can delegate effectively can actually enjoy their own wedding. Sounds good, huh?. And while men have become increasingly involved in the process, it is still the Bride who has more of herself invested in the day. So, generally speaking, the Bride’s mindset and approach have a greater impact on the day than anything else. Ergo, ‘Happy Bride, Happy Day’. A relaxed Bride, which usually leads to a chilled out Groom, promises a more enjoyable day, as well as better wedding photography.

But, depending on the personalities in play, this is easier said than done. That includes the couple, the Family members and the Vendors. Still, the wedding day is mostly about the Bride.

First to the easy-going Bride. You’re all good. That is because you will run into some problems – which will most likely not be anything remotely major. Maybe the flowers aren’t ‘precisely’ what you wanted. Maybe there isn’t a place card for one of your guests. Maybe your dress rubbed against something and there is a minor stain. Maybe one of your always irritating family members is, not surprisingly, getting under your skin. Maybe after five sunny days in a row, it’s a gloomy wet day. And so on… But, you are the laid-back Bride, so you roll with the punches, focused on the bigger picture – you know, you’re marrying the love of your life! So, you take it all in stride and revel in your special day. And the wedding pictures will show it.

To the high strung Bride, this is most likely going to be the most intense day of your life so far (if you haven’t already given birth that is). Your intention will obviously be to have an awesome experience, but sometimes it doesn’t take a lot for the heart rate to skyrocket. While the following suggestions and thoughts apply to all Brides and Grooms, they may be essential for the overly sensitive Bride:

- Delegate responsibilities to someone trustworthy and reliable, preferably your Matron of Honor. She will be your point person who will deal with issues as they arise, only letting you know if it’s a major decision.

- Wrap up all wedding prep at least a few days before the day so you can really enjoy the build-up.

- Visualize ahead of time. Anticipating it’s going to be a stressful day, set your intention to not over-react to things.

- Try to identify worries and exasperation within yourself asap so it doesn’t grow out of proportion and become a distraction. In short, let it go.

- That detail you are so upset about… Chances are your guests will not see or care – unless you make a big deal out of it. The vast majority of your guests are more interested in witnessing the love that has brought the two of you together.

- Family Intrigue. You both know who in your families bring out the worst in you (gotta love family). The great thing here is that if there is a certain individual who just gets your goat, you can see it coming from miles away. It’s a shame to allow this person to ruin things for you. Own your own emotions and reactions.

- Be open to a change of plans. Crappy day? Be receptive to your photographer’s suggestions because they should be doing their utmost to capture good couple shots (arguably the most important pictures). In short, be flexible. Occasionally, an alternative plan actually ends up being better than the original.

And what of the Groom? Suffice to say, he can also be a Groomzilla, but generally speaking, he is usually doing this best to keep his Bride pleased – unless he’s a butthead. The wedding day is a concentrated practice session for the rest of your lives together. ‘Happy Bride, Happy Day’ segues perfectly into both ‘Happy Wife, Happy Life’ and sets the stage for creative wedding photography.

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